Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Things I'm Thankful for, Part II

Tonight, I'm thankful for video games. Yes - you read that correctly. An homage to Nintendo doesn't feel very poetic or grand, but in my world, video games mean that I've accomplished necessary tasks to the extent that I don't feel (very) guilty about flipping my own switch to the 'off' position and doing something mindless for awhile. In my world, mindless is healthy, because often, my brain and my heart are so twisted over certain cards we were dealt that stress becomes physically exhausting - even damaging. I try really, really hard to hide the signs, but people close to me know how to spot them.

Sometimes in college, after I'd had a rough day, I'd flop on the vinyl couch in the apartment I shared with three other girls and play Donkey Kong 64 until my roommates had come home from class and gone out and come back home again. Last winter, when I stayed home from work sick with a sinus infection, I played Super Mario Galaxy for nine hours and seven minutes. I know this because the game documents such stretches of lost time. And tonight, to celebrate the beginning of a long holiday weekend, I'm rescuing John from our garage (where he has been painting siding since he got home from the office) so I can beat him at Wii Sports Resort before he annihilates me at Golden Eye.


Taylor plays video games sometimes. She's pretty good at bowling on Wii Sports if you get her lined up just right and help her with her wrist motion the first couple of frames. And she does a mean hula hoop on Wii Fit. Unlike her big sister, though, T prefers to unwind with her music. Put her in a room with a stack of CDs and her CD player or her Ipod, and she'll entertain herself for hours on end. She used to sing all of the words to the songs. These days, she doesn't sing the words very often. Instead, she picks out certain notes and hangs on them forever, like a miniature opera singer. She's (almost) always in key. Sometimes we have to remind T not to do this - at least not so loudly - when we're in a public place. But part of me hates to take it away from her.  Pictures mean nothing to her now. Music is everything.

Here's to all of the mindless activities ever invented for the escapement and enjoyment of the mind and the soul. And here's to the next few hours in front of my TV. Wish me luck! :)

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  2. Laura- I just read your latest post about "things
    that you are thankful for". I can completely identify;
    Will loves to play Wii with his sister Ellie; sometimes
    he just enjoys hearing the sounds when she is playing
    it by herself. These are the little things that make
    me smile; knowing that he is enjoying the games
    just as much as his sister, despite the fact that he cannot
    see them. He loves Wii Music; he can conduct that
    Orchestra like a pro!!!

    Will also loves his CD's; he spends a lot of time
    listening to his favorite music & podcasts everyday.
    It may be a small thing that makes him happy, but it
    reminds me that he is happy, and that is all that really
    matters.

    Your post reminded me to be thankful for the small,
    everyday things that truly make a difference to blind
    children. Thank you for that!

    I think about Taylor often, as well as your family.
    I hope that you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

    Katie Thames
    (friend of Jill; who also works with Will.)

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  3. Thanks so much for your kind words, Katie! Knowing that Taylor is happy makes me happy, too. What you say is so true - it really is the small, everyday things that make a difference for children like Taylor and Will. And watching the impact the little things have on Taylor is something I live for. We had a very nice Thanksgiving today and hope you and your family did as well! Thank you, as always, for reading.

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