Things I'm Thankful for, Part I

In honor of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, I've decided to pen a new entry on each of the next four days, with each post dedicated to something for which I'm thankful.

Tonight, I'm thankful for my ability to see. I'm blessed to possess two eyes that, with the assistance of contact lenses or thick glasses, receive reflected light and usher it through first the cornea, then the pupil, then the lens and then the retina, where finally it is converted into electrical impulses and sent to my brain, where an image is produced. This is an amazing process that took nearly three full lines to describe but that in reality happens instantaneously and without requiring any thought or effort on my part. Since I was nine years old, I've had a hard time climbing out of bed in the morning without first putting my glasses on, but once I do that, the world is crystal-clear.

I'm thankful for all of the visual memories that will forever remain preserved in my heart. This very instant, I can see the way the sunlight trickled through the leaves of a certain tree whose canopy watches over a sidewalk that runs alongside the Undergraduate Library on the campus of the University of North Carolina. I used to purposely take that sidewalk to South Campus just so I could walk through that dappled light. Now, I can see the fountain at SouthPark Mall in my hometown, as well as the thousands of pennies slumbering under the water's surface, and my dad's face as he tells me, his only child, a story, and the scoop of mint chocolate chip ice cream perched atop a sugar cone from the Baskin Robbins whose departure from the mall many years ago almost left me in tears. (I immortalized that particular memory in the novel I never finished once the doctors discovered the terrible truth about my sister's genes.) Now, I can see my great-grandmother's laugh - because she laughed with her eyes - as she watches a funny movie with me in her basement, an ice-cold can of "Co-cola" in her hand and an unfinished game of Chinese checkers on the coffee table. Now, I can see my husband's face as he asks me to marry him on the sidewalk in front of my grandparents' house in Wake Forest, NC, where we spent our first wonderful long weekend together as best friends just three days before he asked me out (not the first time he asked, but the first time I said "yes") during the first semester of our senior year of high school. Now, I can see my little sister's beautiful, working eyes focus on me as she runs to give me a hug.

I graduated from college in the spring of 2004, and that tree beside the library is no longer a regular part of my life. The SouthPark Baskin Robbins is so long-gone that most people living in Charlotte these days probably don't even know that it ever existed. My great-grandmother passed away a few years ago, and I never got to tell her goodbye. My husband and I are still as in love as we were on our wedding day, but my grandmother is very sick, and the house where John asked me to marry him was sold two months ago. And my sister has not made eye contact with me in a very long time, because Batten disease came along and decided that she doesn't deserve to see. So I cherish photos I took of her more than a few years ago - the ones in which she is looking at the camera. And more than ever, I cherish each and every moment spent with my blind sister. I cherish the miracle that is her presence in my life, and I hate the disease that wags its finger at me every day, tells me to stop fighting back, tells me I should be satisfied with the memories I already have and stop dreaming of making more.